So as I was browsing the Internets, I came across a Yahoo article about a six-year old girl who, prior to dying of brain cancer, wrote love notes for her family and hid them around the house. Her parents found them after she passed away and as a result, wrote a book and started a foundation to raise money for pediatric brain cancer research.
While browsing the comments, I realized that lots of people think this story is a scam. I was quite surprised by the cynicism expressed by others. One person even said, “using a dead kid to sell a fiction book is pretty low.” It’s as if Balloon Boy has turned us all into skeptics!
Now I don’t know whether or not this is just a hoax. But looking at the website, I felt like it wasn’t my place to judge the validity of this story, especially if money truly is being raised for cancer research. I mean, I hope no one would heartlessly embezzle money in the name of cancer (though I know sadder things have happened — ahem, Balloon Boy’s parents!).
Even more, it got me thinking about the importance of telling the people you love that you love them. Personally, I know I don’t say it nearly as much as I should. I may have gotten this from my parents — they NEVER say the “L” word. I ever remember once asking my father if he loved me and him replying, “I wouldn’t let someone eat all my food and live in my house for free for nothing.”
So with that said, I propose to you a challenge: to write a love note. It can be to anyone and it can say anything. It doesn’t need to be romantic and it doesn’t have to give an in-depth explanation. But I think once the words come out, it’s easier to make sure the right person receives them.
I’d love for you all to send me your love notes here. You can make your note anonymous, but be sure to write “Love Note” in the subject line. I’ll post all the notes, anonymously, on November 30th.
FB @ FabulouslyBroke.com
November 5th, 2009 at 12:56 PM
That has to be the slickest answer ever
“I ever remember once asking my father if he loved me and him replying, “I wouldn’t let someone eat all my food and live in my house for free for nothing.””
Very “Everybody hates Chris”… and my father too, actually.
I’ve never heard the I Love You from ANYONE in my family, but I know they love me, because my mom signs her notes to me like that.
And they’re just not affectionate people, so I’m cool with it.
I get plenty of love from BF via food & cute notes he leaves me on a mirror.
Elle
November 5th, 2009 at 6:44 PM
People are so jaded, it’s sad. I think this is a brilliant idea, and will certainly be taking part in this love note project. AMAZING idea
! Also, thank you for your words of encouragement on the death trap of the GRE’s. Hopefully, I won’t have to re-take them!
Jessica
November 5th, 2009 at 10:09 PM
Wow that is really surprising that people found it a hoax. I heard about it on the TODAY show and actually find it really touching. Sad.
Walter
November 6th, 2009 at 12:01 AM
Whether the story is real or not, the message goes the same. Expressing our love for someone we cared about goes on even after our time in this world.
Aftercancer
November 6th, 2009 at 10:31 PM
I hate to be awful but I suspect some of the people who think it is a hoax have good reason. Unfortunately is is more common than you think that people would claim cancer as a way to earn publicity, money and/or favors. It is sad, pathetic and awful but unfortunately it is also true.
Julie
November 8th, 2009 at 12:56 AM
Awww I love this idea!!!!
MinD
November 10th, 2009 at 10:43 AM
Fabulous idea. Though I am one to tell those I love that I do all too often. I guess my theory is, and perhaps always has been, that people should know how I feel about them at all times, never needing to doubt it.